The Top Seven Sexual Fantasies
The common myth that men have at least sexual thoughts seven times an hour may come to your mind. But think about this, women are also catching up very fast. By the way research shows that about 55% of men studies are visual creatures.
This means that everything that passes by is quickly internalized that the brain to produce a need to act on it. Women have been known to the kinesthetic. This means that you have to caress them by all means, physically, mentally what ever the means. So buying those flowers, chocolate, saying those nice words, all these tend to go down well with what women want. Bearing in mind these two groups of people, when ever they go through a kinesthetic or visual experience with the opposite sex, certain things start running through their minds. These end up as being fantasies when they persist. These are some of the sexual fantasies;
- Making love with someone other than one’s regular partner. This is very common at your place of work, at the regular club, your neighbor name it. Every time you encounter this person this is the commonest fantasy that comes up.
- The commonest myth in some African communities is that after the rights of passage, boys were told to go out and ‘test’ their potentials. This normally ends up being overrated and may persist in some. You end up having thoughts of trying our in all sorts of class of people including those from another race or class, a relative, a friend’s spouse.
- The three some syndrome. This is becoming very common especially among men. It is their fantasy to have sex with one’s partner and another person.
- The romantic fantasy. Every one wants to have the TV movies experience – sex in idyllic surroundings such as the Caribbean beach. Women have this kind of fantasy all through. Thanks to the TV soaps.
- Forced sex – also called the “rape fantasy”. This is very common among both sexes where one has fantasies of being forced into or forcing someone into a sensual position. This comes especially when one fantasizes about a certain person he or she has a strong sensual urge to meet him or her. You probably have seen these in movies.
- Sex in weird places. Ever though of having a romantic or sensual relationship that ends in copulation in places such as the cow shed, pool, beach, parking lot etc? This is sometimes called taboo sex.
- Sex with a celebrity. You probably have had this over and over again. Have you ever entered a guy’s hostel room and seen those sexy ladies’ portraits. What do you think these guys are thinking when they look at the curvy bodies? Of course some ladies have left some food burn in the microwave when Michael Scofield is on TV!
I guess we are all human.